Cutting off bad energy sources
The sad part about growing up is realizing that in order to come back to absolute beauty we have to cut off bad energy.
Bad energy can come in many forms, but this blog post is about bad energy coming from other people. The carriers of bad energy can old school friends, acquaintances, work colleagues or even family. While cutting off family ties is a bad ideas karmically all other types of relationships need to be nipped in the bud if they bring you displeasure.
When I realized this I cried a lot. I am the sort of person that is deadly loyal with an underline of naivette. As the pink fog dissipates I see that certain people only bring me pain and there isn’t a way around it. There is no talking it out, there is no “well maybe if…”.
Once you come to that realization you need to act right away, because the longer you postpone the longer you will feel drained. No matter how you flip it or try to deny it, they will pull you down to their level if you stay.
Chances are it is for good. Of course it is possible that some day you will reconnect, but in my experiences that has not been the case.
And the most important thing is, you need to remain polite. Continue to say “hello,” make small talk if needed, be professional if they are your collegea. If they are a friend or an acquaintances you should answer their calls and do your best to fade out of their lives slowly so they don’t notice, because bad energy generally comes from insecurity and kicking an insecure person when they are down is the worst thing you can do.
Also remember that you may reconnect in the future so there is no need to burn bridges or perform any sort of extremes. They are still wonderful people for somebody else, somebody may need them more than life itself, just not you, not now.
Wish them luck, clarity, and love..
By:
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𝓛𝓸𝓿𝓮,
𝓐𝓙☙
